You can try this updated remake of a classic, Tale of Wuxia https://store.steampowered.com/app/377530/Tale_of_Wuxia/. I actually worked on the crowdsourced English translation. If you encounter some pretty decent sentences amidst the Baidu translated ones, that was probably me🙂
Basically you're this nobody NPC who ends up joining the Xiaoyao Sect due to a twist of events. Spend 4 years training martial arts to become a wuxia hero admired by all...or spend it fishing, mining, smithing, learning arts and crafts, exploring the town and hanging out with all the other denizens of the Martial World. I find that while most other games are pretty good at telling you a wuxia story, this one comes the closest to letting you actually experience the atmosphere and "feel" of living in a wuxia setting for reals.
It's also got a prequel here https://store.steampowered.com/app/650760/Tale_of_WuxiaThe_PreSequel/
Also if you don't mind an older game, there's also Jade Empire by Bioware.